Nancy is my best friend.  We live a thousand miles away.   We met in 2003 when I lived in the midwest for a few years, and we became instant friends.  We realized very quickly that we grew up in completely opposite kinds of families. She was raised in a dutch, straight-laced, conservative family in Iowa.  Vanilla as she refers to it. Me? I grew up in Long Island, New York to a loud, Irish Italian family with lots of laughter and an equal measure of tears. A very spicy clan.

She called me today.  At one point we got off track like we normally do.

"Nancy," I said, "Wouldn't you like to be able to take each other back to our childhood just for a day?"

"I know, right?  We were so opposite, I wonder if we would have been friends."

We both paused and thought about that for a moment.

"Yeah," I said, "I think we would have found each other and would have been friends.  

"Yes, I think you're right."

No matter how opposite our backgrounds, we both brought an immense amount of loyalty, honesty, patience, love, and a very, very, high capacity for laughter.  I am forever grateful that one day sixteen years ago I met my best friend in a little town in the Heartland. I guess we have enough in common that even a thousand miles can't keep us from being best friends.